Life Is Good, Yet Why Am I Not Satisfied?
Life Is Good, Yet Why Am I Not Satisfied?
Our dissatisfaction with life on earth points to God's bigger plan for His creation, muses one writer. Eliza Tan
Our dissatisfaction with life on earth points to God's bigger plan for His creation, muses one writer. Eliza Tan
My friend Kristine is pretty, healthy, and wealthy. I would have imagined that a person like Kristine would want to enjoy her blessings on earth as long as she can. Her husband is a banker, she is loved by her well-behaved and good-looking children, and they travel to places like Switzerland for winter breaks. And, she doesn't even need to work.
My friend Kristine is pretty, healthy, and wealthy.
Her husband is a banker, she is loved by her well-behaved and good-looking children, and they travel to places like Switzerland for winter breaks. And, she doesn't even need to work.
I would have imagined that a person like Kristine would want to enjoy her blessings on earth as long as she can.

But, I was taken aback one day when she shared her weariness of life with me. “I feel like nothing in this world can truly satisfy me anymore,” she confessed. “I thank God for His goodness to me and my family. But the happiness doesn’t last. These blessings only make me thirsty for something more than what this world offers.”

"Nothing in this world can truly satisfy me anymore..."

She added that the passing of a dear mutual friend had exacerbated these feelings. “The blessings I have are also responsibilities that bring me anxiety. I look forward to heaven.”

Kristine’s sharing surprised me. After all, the world tells us that riches, success, and power would buffer us from life’s sufferings, sorrows and stresses, as Proverbs 18:11 alludes to: “The wealth of the rich is their fortified city; they imagine it a wall too high to scale.”

I thought such laments about this unsatisfying world were only felt by “ordinary” people like me. But I guess Kristine, and many others, have seen too much brokenness and sin in this world to want to linger here any longer.

An Age-Old
Yearning

As I mulled over Kristine’s words, I thought about how I’ve often felt that there’s more to life than what we experience on earth.

The Bible describes someone prominent who felt the same way.

King Solomon had it all―wisdom, great projects, work, advancement, pleasures, wealth, women. He had everything anyone could possibly want.

For us today, that might look like reaching the pinnacle of our organisation and raking in hundreds of thousands a month. Being able to jet-set to whatever luxury destination we fancy, or to buy whatever gadget, outfit, or food we desire. Having the respect and admiration of everyone around us.

In spite of all this, Solomon called everything he had “meaningless” (Ecclesiastes 2:23). This expression, translated as vanity or futility in some Bible versions, comes from the Hebrew word hevel, meaning vapour or breath.

To Solomon, life is like a breath; before we can grasp it, it's gone.

At the same time, we get a glimpse of Solomon’s desire for things that lasted forever. He hated the idea that whatever he had done and achieved would be lost to those who came after he died (Ecclesiastes 2:18-23).

What Will Last

Just like Kristine, who seemed to have everything in life, Solomon recognised that everything we possess could disappear in the blink of an eye. Because of this, we yearn for something that will truly last and satisfy.

Perhaps this is why Solomon went on to write that God has “set eternity in the human heart” (Ecclesiastes 3:11). According to GotQuestions.org, this refers to a desire that cannot be fulfilled nor quenched by the temporal and transient things and relationships of this world, no matter how good they can be.

Author C. S. Lewis explains this in his book Mere Christianity:

“If I find in myself a desire which no experience in this world can satisfy, the most probable explanation is that I was made for another world . . . Probably earthly pleasures were never meant to satisfy it, but only to arouse it, to suggest the real thing. If that is so, I must take care, on the one hand, never to despise, or to be unthankful for, these earthly blessings, and on the other, never to mistake them for the something else of which they are only a kind of copy, or echo, or mirage.”

This craving, he said, can only be satisfied in a “true country”―a place which he could truly call home.

Eternity in Our Hearts

I guess we yearn for eternity because that was God’s original, perfect plan in the Garden of Eden. We could have enjoyed unblemished bodies, untroubled labour, and perfect peace with God and one another, forever.

But after the fall of man, all that ended.

When man ate the forbidden fruit, death devoured him.

He was condemned to spiritual death—having been cut off from fellowship with and separated from God—and physical death, when the tree of life was no longer accessible to him. Genesis 3:22 tells us God’s words following man’s first sin: “He must not be allowed to reach out his hand and take also from the tree of life and eat, and live forever.”

Yet, this prohibition in itself was God’s act of mercy and protection.

To take from the tree of life after sin entered into humanity is to live forever in sin.

Imagine our unending misery, sorrow, and grief.

Thankfully, God, out of His love for His creation, gave us His Son Jesus Christ, so that we who believe can have eternal life (John 3:16). We are restored to know Him—that is eternal life (John 17:3). Romans 2:7, too, tells us that God will give eternal life to those who “by persistence in doing good seek glory, honour and immortality”.

We have eternal life in part now, and one day, it shall be in full.

Making Today Meaningful

God has placed in each of our hearts―you, me, Kristine, and even King Solomon―a desire for eternity, so that we will look forward to the day we are fully united with Him, and live wisely and with intentionality as we await the day of Jesus’ return.

Moses, reflecting on God’s eternity and our mortality, prays: “Teach us to number our days that we may get a heart of wisdom” (Psalm 90:12). We can “learn wisdom from the brevity and bleakness of life,” a Bible teacher explains.

Apostle Paul repeats this message in the spirit of carpe diem, or “seize the day”, by instructing us to live wisely, “making the most of every opportunity” and “[understanding] what the Lord’s will is” (Ephesians 5:15–17).

Perhaps taking an inventory of how we spend our time can help us live with wisdom. Looking at how I spent my time, I realised that I gave too much time on entertainment and too little time digging into His Word. I’ve started to wake up earlier to read God’s Word and pray before I head to work.

Another specific way we can mine for wisdom is to read the book of Proverbs. I’ve heard a preacher give this advice: read a chapter of Proverbs every day, which will enable us to complete the book in a month. We can then start over and read through the whole book every month. In so doing, we gain wisdom, which helps us to guard our hearts, the wellspring of life (Proverbs 4:11, 13, 23).

In recognising our limited time on earth, we can be intentional in making the most of every opportunity, when it comes to relating to unbelievers (Colossians 4:5), which I realised I wasn’t.

During a recent catch-up, a friend caught herself gossiping about a common acquaintance. Out of the blue, she asked, “What does God say about this?” But I brushed her question aside because I thought, what’s the point of telling her when she doesn’t believe in Christ? In hindsight, I realised that I’d missed the God-given opportunity to share with her more about who God is and how He desires us to live.

Now, I pray that I would recognise the opportunities to share gospel truth with my loved ones. Because I care about whether they will spend their eternity outside the kingdom of God, I am now more deliberate in inviting them to church service and sharing the gospel with them.

Our Holy,
Happily Ever After

It may be difficult to think about eternity when we are under pressure from various sides in this world. To this, Paul encourages us to look beyond our temporary afflictions and to the work God is doing in us (2 Corinthians 4:17–18).

During a period when I was bewildered about God’s will for my life, the Holy Spirit enabled me to realise how the trial was developing my patience and teaching me about surrendering to God. This process of growth and change―while painful―is of eternal value because it’s making me more like Jesus. We can remind ourselves to consider how God uses our trials to draw us to Him and long for Him.

And we can take heart that there’s an end date to all our trials. Let’s look forward to the day of holy, “happily ever after”, when we will see our Saviour face to face, and all weeping, lamenting, and grieving shall cease (Revelation 21:4).

As we face today and tomorrow, may our desire for eternity be what motivates us to live for Christ, as we set our eyes on the hope of being with Him forever.

Although Eliza Tan eats to live rather than lives to eat, she still enjoys her food and wholeheartedly agrees with Ecclesiastes 3:13, "That each of them may eat and drink, and find satisfaction in all their toil—this is the gift of God."

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